Wednesday, January 3, 2007
Great Piece of Advice for Any Man
I have this friend who seems to always have problems finding and keeping women! He comes to me constantly for advice and I am more than happy to give it. Though his problems do differ based on the situation and the girl, there is always one underlying theme to his problems...lack of confidence and self esteem! I have told him over and over to "just be yourself" but I don't think he likes who that person is. He needs to come to grips to who he is and start appreciating that! It may be cheesy but I firmly believe in the tried and true advice of "you have to love yourself before others can love you." Confidence is one of the most attractive features a man can possess. If you have that, everything else will eventually fall into place!
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Well, this "friend" you have has a serious problem and it lies with in him. If you have no confidence in yourself, your relationships will fail one after another, no matter what you do. Everyone is "worth it", they just have to find their worth. A tip: try going into a relation with no expectations.. blank pages.. enjoy each minute with this person that brings a smile to your face (if they don't.. end it!) and write the book as you go along.. stop looking for women who make you feel less than what you are, try dating the girl you normally wouldn't ask to buy a drink at the bar.. you'll find that she is probably the most interesting person if you can be patient enough for her to open up to you. failure may happen, but go in like you've never experienced failure. I hope this helps your "friend"
Any man can have any woman if they take the time to listen, love and truely care.
Amen Sweetheart! I agree whole-heartedly!
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